This is a tricky topic for me to write about. One, I don't want to offend anyone. Two, these are the opinions of a very ignorant man, being as I am myself, a man, and also I have never been in a relationship. These are just the thoughts of a man who is praying and searching for a woman of God who can truly love Jesus more then me or anything else.
Starting off, this a very real desire for me, one I have had since I can remember, one I've struggled with for a while. I have always from a young age desired to get married, have a family and fall deeper in love with my wife into old age. This over the years became more of a god in my life then just a healthy desire, where loneliness would consume my hours. In recent time I have overcome this by the grace of God, realizing that he's all I need in this life and the only thing I should put my trust, love, and devotion in. Jesus designed marriage as a blessing not a need, He did however place a deep longing in my heart for this.
Being in this day and age where depth in how a person lives is very rare, I find very few men and women of God living out their lives in complete devotion. This bothers me, I don't see a future of God fearing, totally ravished by his presence, men and women. I have the great pleasure of knowing a handful of beautiful women who have a unquenchable zeal for Jesus, I know a few men too and their some of the most unbelievably attractive people I know. Jesus just burns through their lives and you can't help but wonder that these people have some kind of deep secret of happiness, They do. Let me just say something to the beautiful, fearfully and wonderfully made daughters of the king. You are loved, and no man, boyfriend, husband, or any one thing of this world will ever satisfy your deep rooted desire to be wanted. You are wanted, by the king of all Jesus Christ, who thinks you're the most beautiful girl in the world, masked by makeup or not. He is jealous for your time, for you to fall on your face in the raw, untamed, and wildly beautiful worship of him. You are a queen, a fierce and cunning warrior of God, and If you set your eyes upon him, the right man who is just as set in his gaze will come along. You'll both be pursing him with all your strength and God will bring you together to pursue each other, but the foundation will be set. Let Jesus be your pursuit.
I apologize in advance for grammatical errors. Im terrible at writing.
Regards, Alec Fritz